In love, some people believe that there is no reason for liking someone, or that they like someone because they like them. However, there actually exists a reason that they themselves are unaware of.
They are factors such as “sexual attraction, gentlemanly attitude, kindness, sense of humor, similar values, and one’s physical and mental condition at the time. The feeling of “liking” arises as a result of the overall judgment of these factors at an unconscious level.
Nevertheless, it may be more enjoyable not to think about such reasons and to have certain illusions during a relationship.
However, we must be careful not to think that this person is “destined” for us. Such thinking may lead you to overlook the serious faults of the other person or stalk him or her.
I had a relationship with a violent man. Incidents such as breakups that turn sour and people being stabbed by their boyfriends occur every day all over the world.
Enjoy the illusion of love only to the extent that it does not ruin your life.