Magazines and web media often talk about the importance of creating an opening, as in, “If you want to be popular with men, be a woman with an opening. Creating an opening means creating an environment that makes it easy for a partner to approach you in a relationship.
So, how can you make it easier for the other person to approach you? I believe the following three attitudes are important.
Always smile
The first thing is to smile. By smiling naturally and being kind to those around you, you show that “I am not the one to hurt you. No one wants to talk to someone who is frowning and grumpy.
Don’t expect perfection from others
There are people in society who expect perfection from others even though they are imperfect. People who are expected to be perfect become nervous and weary because they think they can’t make mistakes. As a result, they try to avoid your company.
Showing your weaknesses
Sometimes it is helpful to show your weaknesses. They will feel empathy and affinity for your humanity and will want to be friends with you. However, there is no need to show your weaknesses to the extent that your social life will be ruined.
Lastly
People have a feeling of not wanting to be hurt by engaging with someone they have never met before. If you can unravel that insecurity, you will be loved by many people. You don’t have to be perfect to be loved.