Even those who say that marriage and childrearing don’t appeal to them, that they want to spend time for themselves, and that being single is great, sometimes find themselves lonely.
At the peak of their sadness, they start to think philosophically, “There is a limit to the life I can live only for myself,” or “What on earth am I living for?
So what should you do when you find yourself in such a situation?
Get married and raise children
The first thing that comes to mind is to get married and raise children. However, neither marriage nor child rearing can be done in a hurry. It takes time to find a partner. In addition, once you reach a certain age, it becomes difficult to get married.
Make friends
Those who do not want to get married and raise children may consider making friends. However, making friends as an adult can be very difficult. Adults have their own families and lives, making it difficult for them to get together regularly and socialize.
Engage in work or hobbies
The most practical way to alleviate loneliness is to immerse oneself in one’s work or hobby. While you are immersed in something, you do not have to think about anything else. If you don’t think about anything for a while, the feeling of loneliness that arises inside you will disappear before you know it.
Making a pseudo-mate
A pseudo-mate is “someone you feel close to even though you don’t actually know them. Celebrities such as entertainers and athletes, as well as people who share information on blogs, social networking sites, YouTube, etc. are examples. By following them and observing their lives, you can feel that you are not alone.
Sleep
If the loneliness doesn’t go away no matter what you do, go to bed.
Lastly
Loneliness is an emotion called loneliness. No emotion lasts forever, so if you deal with the emotion appropriately, the problem will go away.