There are people in society who, for one reason or another, are unable to open up to others. However, some of these people want to fall in love. So how can they establish romantic relationships with others?
It is to “go out with them without opening their hearts. You can have a good time with someone you like without opening up. In fact, it may work better if you don’t tell them anything unnecessary.
For example, what if the person you are dating opens up and speaks ill of a friend or boss to you, or tells you about a painful experience he or she has had in the past?
At first, you may feel happy that the person is only talking to you and that they trust you, but after a while, you may get tired of hearing them complain all the time.
I believe that no matter how close you become, you should only interact with each other in the ways that you can show each other.
However, not telling the other person anything about yourself may also make the other person uncomfortable. Therefore, a certain amount of self-disclosure is necessary.
You can also lie about things you really don’t want to talk about. As the saying goes, “Lying is good for the soul,” so lying is sometimes necessary in socializing.