Some may believe that “women are upwardly mobile and tend to look for high-spec abilities in their lovers and marriage partners. In reality, however, such people are limited to a few women, and most women seem to choose men with similar values and abilities to themselves.
Why do many women avoid high-spec men? It may have something to do with a lack of self-confidence. Modern women are very independent, and if their partner is too good, they lose confidence in their own worth as a person.
For example, if her boyfriend is a well-educated, high-income, quick-witted man who can handle household chores and solve problems that arise in life on his own, she loses her significance as a partner. Some people worry, “Am I standing in his way?
This is good news for men with low specifications. This is good news for low-spec men, because they do not have to make the effort to become the “prince on the white horse” that women idealize. If you have a close friend-like relationship with a woman of your choice and a little bit of sexual attraction, it is quite possible to make a girlfriend.